Sometimes an argument can get heated and lead to someone calling the police. Domestic abuse calls usually result in someone getting arrested and removed from the home. Once the person who called the police finally calms down, they often decide not to press charges. Even though the person changes their mind, the police still need to investigate the situation and a prosecutor makes a decision about the charges. If you have been arrested for domestic abuse, consider following the tips mentioned below.

Remain Silent

Once the police arrive at the scene and it’s clear you will be arrested, choose to remain silent. Always verbally advise the police “I want to invoke my right to remain silent.” This alerts the police that you are claiming your right, not just ignoring them by refusing to speak.

Remain Calm

You probably just experienced the biggest argument of your life, but it doesn’t give you the right to take out your frustration or anger on the police. Always remember, every word you say to the police is written in a report and will be seen by the court and everyone involved in your court appearance and beyond. Behaving respectfully towards the police makes the process go easier and provides insight into your true personality. It shows that even under the most aggressive and frustrating situations, you still have respect for others.

Gather Evidence

Chances are you might have taken a video of the argument with your cell phone. It’s essential to keep that information or any other evidence that will defend you in court in a safe place.

Contact an Attorney

Once you have gathered your details and evidence, contact a criminal attorney that will help guide you through the process. If you don’t have any evidence, write down what happened in detail to help paint a clear picture of the situation. You will need to include the environment you were in at the time of the argument, what started the argument and how it escalated in steps until you reach the moment the police arrived. Continue the documentation of your experience all the way to the point where you have been arrested and processed.

If you are ready for someone to be in your corner and help you defend your side of the story, contact us today for further assistance.


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